tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5962089606607878817.post5420103920375630452..comments2023-04-04T08:43:46.317-07:00Comments on L-Beatz Blogs: Take the fork out of your mouth.L-Beatzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13792585363032202904noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5962089606607878817.post-49181116458695587222008-08-05T07:46:00.000-07:002008-08-05T07:46:00.000-07:00hhmmm...very interesting. I always thought it was ...hhmmm...very interesting. I always thought it was solely the media and guys that made women feel insecure about their physical selves. But I come to find that it was your own grandmother that planted the seed for the way you think today.<BR/><BR/>You know, I feel bad, and I have for some time now, because i was one of those guys who made fun of those little chubby girls back in grade school. I grew up thinking women were only beautiful if they were thin an so on... But its ironic because my woman is on the big side. In the beginning I was actully embarassed (I slap my damn self for this now), but now im ashamed of myself for ever thinking like that towards her and all women. I now know what true beauty is and it has nothing to do with weight, boobs, ass, or all that physical crap(I mean this, I ain't just talking out my ass, all thanks to my woman). and I could go on to write a whole other blog on just that, but there is more I must comment on.<BR/><BR/>When it comes to those people that gave you attention after you lost weight, Im happy to hear that you questioned that shit and took a step back from them. I know a couple girls right now that are losing weight, and abusing pills to do it, just to get that very same kind of attention. except their happy with it. instead of changing the kinda people they hang around, they are forcefully trying to change their body, thats sad.<BR/><BR/>Okay, when it comes to you wanting to get a boob job and other jobs for yourself, I gotta say something. Please dont be offended. but I find it hard to believe that you would be truly doing this for yourself. Because, in the very same paragraph you said something like -I dont have big boobs or a big ass, and I think how could someone find me attractive.- being that you said that and that you would get jobS done lead me to believe that deep down they are for how you would feel based on what others think. Now i could be really wrong, but what im saying to you and all women considering this is, make sure your not lying to yourself to justify getting a boob job and others done. its one thing to lie to others but lying to yourself is the most destructive thing, I would know cause ive done it in the name of love(another thing I slap my damn self for).<BR/><BR/>Instead what all you girls should do is take that money you were going to give some doctor who profits off your insecurity instead of using his skills to heal people, and spend it on things to develop your inner-self instead of your outer-self. like books or something of that nature, cause its the inner beauty that is the only real beauty. Alexis, you know this already, you say that people just have this natural attraction to you. That attraction is because you carry yourself like a woman instead of trying to be a stereotypical one, right?? <BR/><BR/>but in the end thats my comment and opinion. Indeed, I have learned something from reading this. keep it up.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com